DearHusbandToBe.

okay, so clearly you are experienced bloggers;)

you found it quickly...good job!

yes, i'm writing to my guy.

the one who is going to gift me with a beautiful ring and a happily ever after.

the one that exists, but that i don't know just yet.

i talk ABOUThim all the time.

and sometimes even talk TOhim (in my head of course...that makes it better, right?).

so why not write him?

i wonder a lot about:

interaction

communication

empathy

patience

reliability

capability

education

ambition

mission experience

spiritual goals

priesthood responsibilities

family background

ability to nurture

personal character

integrity

hand shake

language

temperament

testimony

and.

so.

much.

more.

it's not in a consuming way,

but i tend to cross over to the dreamy longing side

rather than the realistic logical side.

so i thought there might be some significance in making this relationship

more of a reality.  perhaps i'll get to clarify what this all means to me...and finally do something about it.  and perhaps one day it will become a book to gift that guy.

i got this blessing once that talks in detail about my guy (and i trust it).

and i have this pencil that told me about all my kids (and for some silly reason, i like trusting the pencil too;).

and i've got this great boy who's as eager as i am to meet them all (the guy and the kids).

if you'd like to read about it...you may.

and if you'd like to guest blog on it...you may.

cause let's be real: i've never been married and i know there is a chance for naive foolish ideas to slip into the posts to the ol Husband to Be.  it's kind of the idea of someone who's not a parent saying all the things they WILL and WON'T do when they have children...but then the kids come and life is totally different.  i get that.

and i'm so excited to have the input from my trusted peeps to add to the whole experience!

the new blog will evolve just like this one. 

it has no boundaries. 

i love the freedom in that.

enjoy!